Date again with clear intentions, private check-ins and room for your pace.
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Dating again. Better this time.
Back At It helps adults return to dating with clearer intentions, room for boundaries, and control over their pace. Whether you are returning after a breakup, taking a fresh approach, or still exploring what you want, you do not need a perfect answer to begin.
START WITH WHAT YOU WANT
Share your relationship goal, your stage, and the pace you are comfortable with. Choose discovery preferences and make selected goal or pace choices firm when they matter to you. You can join without sharing a breakup timeline. Profiles show the intentions people choose to share; we do not assign a compatibility or readiness score.
GET TO KNOW THE PERSON
Read profile prompts about what someone has learned, what they want next, and the boundaries they want to share. Add your state or province and country. Optional distance sharing shows an approximate range only when both people enable it, without displaying coordinates on profiles.
WHAT SOUNDS GOOD THIS WEEK?
Share up to three things you are up for, from coffee and a walk to taking a conversation slowly. Choices disappear after seven days. Shared interests give you another way to start a conversation.
MAKE CONVERSATIONS CLEARER
Connect brings your chats, matches, and likes together. Optional conversation starters help you write a first message, and you can edit them before sending. Play a Spark Game with your match: answers are revealed after both people respond. Propose a date plan with a public meeting place and a time; both people agree, and changing the details asks for fresh agreement. Either person can withdraw. Reply windows and reminders help explain where a conversation stands. When it is time to move on, you can end a conversation with an optional respectful closing note. Reporting, blocking, and unmatching remain available without a paid subscription.
MAKE SPACE FOR YOURSELF
My pace offers private check-ins that you can save, edit, or delete. They do not appear on your dating profile or change your discovery settings. Healing Mode pauses new discovery while keeping existing matches and chats available. Normal conversation reply windows continue during a discovery pause. Return to discovery when you choose.
FIND COMMON GROUND
Back At It Nights brings people together through hosted sessions and drop-in rooms when available. Explore shared prompts and express interest privately, with introductions when interest is mutual. Events are part of Premium. Check the app for session availability; hosted Nights run at the times shown.
OPTIONAL PREMIUM AND REFERRALS
Premium includes seeing who liked you and access to eligible events. Eligible new subscribers can start with a seven-day free trial, as confirmed by Google Play. Your selected plan renews automatically at the price and interval shown before purchase unless you cancel. Manage or cancel renewal in Google Play.
Free and Premium members can refer friends. When an eligible friend enters your code before starting Premium and makes their first qualifying paid payment, you earn one free month. Signups and free trials alone do not earn a reward. Each friend counts once. Earned months are applied from the referral screen and are not cash or transferable.
Back At It is the new name for Rebound. Existing accounts and purchases stay with the same app.
For adults 18 and older. Respect, honesty, and consent are expected from everyone.
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