Black People Meet

Safety Since I have been on this site, I have come across 4 scammers. 1 person, I was involved with, I just found out he’s married. A like I received this morning, when I do a reverse phone check, it does not match his name, or location of where he lives. Another, like I received this morning, he’s posing as a professional US tennis player his face and age do not match the actual athlete. I understand that we the recipient need to be safe. We the female sector put these safety measurements in play, but I feel the site needs to do more of a background check as well. Just because your agency check their phone number as viable you should check it matches the profile. As paying customers the site should be doing face recognition as well. Seems, I’m making a monthly payment just to see fake profiles and need to do a background check myself. This agency can do better and should do better

The constant upselling popups ruin the experience. The constant “Buy a boost” popups EVERY TIME the user passes on a profile are annoying!

only black people i guess no luck on here fake profiles computer generated dont waste ure money

Sucks Not good

Disappointing Experience ’ve been on BlackPeopleMeet off and on for several years, and unfortunately, my experience has consistently been disappointing. I usually take a break because I get tired of dealing with the same issues, then return hoping things have changed—but they haven’t. I’m a middle-aged woman who looks very good for my age—better than average in appearance, fitness, and career. I’m not saying that to suggest I’m perfect or to imply that looks are everything. I’m saying it because I know this isn’t about being unattractive or expecting something unreasonable. I have standards, and while they may be high, they are not unattainable. Unfortunately, I hardly ever make it to a second date, and when I do, it’s often because I’m being extremely patient and giving someone more chances than they have necessarily earned. Many of the men I’ve encountered are either financially unable or unwilling—but more often unable—to plan a proper date, have a questionable history, lack communication skills, or some combination of all three. Others seem to think dating means talking about themselves on the phone for 20 minutes without showing any interest in learning anything about me. Many men claim they want a serious relationship, but their actions don’t support that. Consistency, effort, communication, and basic consideration seem to be in short supply. I’m not looking for perfection, but I am looking for a man who is emotionally mature, genuinely interested, and capable of making a reasonable effort to build a connection. At this point, I’m tired of the inconsistency, lack of effort, and poor communication. My advice to women considering this app is to take your time, pay attention to actions rather than words, and don’t confuse attention with genuine interest. Having standards does not mean expecting too much; it means knowing what you are willing to accept. I also don’t think the cost is worth it, especially considering the overall experience and the limited results. I won’t be paying again, that’s for sure. After several years of trying the site on and off, I can honestly say it has been more frustrating than rewarding.

Might change 1st day Pay to win crazy up charge

Different Now Both the site and I are definitely different. I got on here years ago. Last man was a Muslim. Too many men on here just are using this site for mostly booty calls. I’m looking for Marriage. Very few men near my age won’t do that anymore. Someone treated them badly. Makes it most difficult to meet anyone that’s not fearful. Still, here I am. Giving it a last chance. You see.. I’m not one of those girls that use menfolk. I’m looking forward, or trying to.. find one brother who wants what I want. Marriage.

App Thought that if we matched we could send messages back and forth? Not unless we pay huh

Every thing cost I feel like BPM along with other dating apps know the their consumers are vulnerable and take advantage of our desire to make someone. Aside from the subscription cost there is a cost to get noticed; it just too much. After my six months I’m certain I won’t re subscribe.