I paid for the prem version. We had fun playing it at first. The q's are only geared toward one gender though. Getting questions like "what color lipstick would you like to see (him) wear?" are pointless. And there's a lot of that. The q's also call him a "her" a lot of the time. Biggest issue is that we are constantly getting the same 2 categories and one of them is "intimacy". And it is extremely triggering!! I'd rather not know details about my bfs past sexual experiences. But now I do... ugh